Erin’s Blog

Empathy: Acknowledge Out Loud

[embedyt] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zDILnGIiMaw[/embedyt] A vital and often skipped over step in embracing empathy is to acknowledge OUT LOUD what the other person is feeling. Not just, "Hey, I understand you are feeling." No. Not that. We are all feeling all...

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Empathy: how to take it from a cliche to action

 It seems like as a nation we are craving it and as leaders, it's the top skill required of us. It's a big concept. A powerful skill. Necessary to create connection, to be understood, and to do the transformational, culture-building work we are called to do as...

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Fine with Fine

[embedyt] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fXT8EQ1eCw4[/embedyt] I have been using a word lately that normally lands on my banned-from-use list. The word: fine. I’ve got some built up resistance around this word. There are the flashbacks from my restaurant...

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Active Listening: More than a Head Nod

[embedyt] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qn0QvAaPtug[/embedyt] Active listening.  How many of you have been to a workshop, a seminar, a training, when they talked about active listening? I'm going to bet the majority of you. I'm also going to bet that...

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Human Connection with Just Two Words

[embedyt] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D4nDH3JqVOI[/embedyt] What would your response be if someone came up to you and paid you a genuine compliment? Or gave you some acknowledgement about some amazing impact that you had on their lives? What would you say?...

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Share the Praise: The Secret to Testimonials

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n4oOCQMWwBE I woke up with a start the other night because I heard this random scratching from underneath the bed. I did what anyone would do and I started shaking Mike laying next to me. I said, "Mike! Wake up! There's something...

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Empathy and Solving Client Complaints

https://youtu.be/hcydNidOt3k One of the most painful situations for me to watch is when a customer is screaming and complaining and ranting and raving to an employee. It's so painful for me because I feel like, more times than not, the employee hasn't been given...

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Supporting Your Team Through Happy Songs

https://youtu.be/yQCAHCGcYpA In 2008 I had the opportunity to move to Santa Fe New Mexico. I headed out there as the opening training manager for a resort that was slated to open up in early fall. I headed out in May and it was still hard hats, construction dust,...

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