Authenticity and Contexts

Authenticity and Contexts

Two years ago, I worked with a stylist. “Work with a stylist” had been on my wish list for a long time. We’re talking years. Rationals, excuses, and reasoning finally got forgotten when Nicole Otchy came into my world.  Not only am I MAD fashionable now 😉, but I also...
Testing Lessons Learned in Receiving Feedback

Testing Lessons Learned in Receiving Feedback

Yesterday, as we were wrapping up an incredible week of learning and growth, I had a moment. An in-the-moment test of a lesson I’d learned years ago, and I almost flunked.  Eight years ago, after delivering a full-day program, a participant came up to me with a...
Take Off the Tights

Take Off the Tights

Back in the day, we’re talking the kindergarten day, I took ballet.  My ballet class was at Mrs. Gatsky’s house. No formal studio. No sequined costumes or hours-long recitals. She had a studio set up on her bottom floor, which opened up to her backyard. More often...
Trust and Betrayal

Trust and Betrayal

I don’t know if you ever forget the first time you got burned hard, by a colleague.  Memorial Day, 1998. I’d been managing Uncle Julios, the Tex-Mex restaurant we dubbed the million-dollar taco stand on the corner of North and Clybourn in Chicago. The management team...
Riding the Wave One Choice at a Time

Riding the Wave One Choice at a Time

Yesterday, I got out of bed and immediately opened my computer to send an email to cancel a call for later that day. I was not in the mood.  I immediately got an email back saying it was too late to cancel..she could make an exception, but I didn’t want to be that...